Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Thank You

Thanks to everyone for exploring your contacts and sending us so many ideas. Unfortunately, Kevin isn’t able to travel anywhere for appointments because he is so immobile and fragile, and we’re finding that he qualifies for virtually no clinical trials because of how ill he is. Most clinical trials have requirements regarding mobility, bloodwork, having been off chemotherapy for a certain amount of time, and so on. The tragic thing is that today's cancer treatment and support network hasn’t yet evolved to deal with such an aggressive medulloblastoma that essentially paralyzes patients within a few weeks.

The most recent chemotherapy that Kevin tried did not sit well with his GI tract; acid reflux, indigestion and heartburn made him very uncomfortable for the past week. Kevin’s doctors decided to switch him to yet another chemotherapy that we will attempt to administer from home. Today was the first day we gave him this agent, and we hope it won’t upset his digestive system as much as the previous chemo.

Today we also made the switch to Hospice. The switch was a bit more hectic than we had anticipated, for they came into the house to switch out hospital beds, wheelchairs and other equipment. After adding the Hospice transition and the new chemotherapy onto the general duties of taking care of Kevin, everyone is exhausted.

Kevin has remained in bed most every day for the past several days, and he is still unable to speak. He has been listening to a lot of audiobooks, and he wants to spend nearly every waking moment holding Kathlin’s hand. She is an incredible source of strength and support for Kevin. Kathlin’s mom has been out here this week, and she has also been a huge help.

Again, thank you to you all for your research and love. Keep sending Kevin your best wishes and prayers.

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Keep up the hard work
I love you dearly, you can do it buddy, I know it! keep strong

Love
Ro

Anonymous said...

Kathlin, and I think of you as a Williams, and the rest of the family are in my thoughts and I send my love to you.

Sharon Anderson

Anonymous said...

Kevin-my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family including Kathlin.
I have three fine sons, I know a fine man when I meet one and you are one of the finest men I've met. Take care
Ruth (Colgate Student Health Center)

Anonymous said...

To all of you~ you are in our thoughts every day. Love, Christine and Kim

Anonymous said...

All of you are in our daily thoughts. Wish the news was better but keep fighting for a miracle. Love and faith will help you get through.
Warmest
The Weisbarth's.

Anonymous said...

Thinking about you all. Kevin, I am so glad you have Kathlin in your life. I am praying for you all the time. Please keep fighting.
love,
Christine and Jan J.

Anonymous said...

Dearest Kevin and Kathlin
How beautiful is your love. So pure and strong and never wavering. May you continue to give each other strength and hope as you fight your toughest battle. We send our prayers and love to you and your entire family
Love Toni and Steve Runyon

Anonymous said...

Kevin, Kathlin, Rich, Carolyn, and Stacey,
You never cease to amaze us with your strength, love, and family bond. You are an inspiration to us all. The fight isn't over yet... stay on the battlefield.
We love you and pray for you continually.
Love the Merritts

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you all and sending overflowing amounts of Colgate love your way. Stay strong, Kevin. We are with you!!

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you and sending warm thoughts and wishes. Your family is filled to the brim with love.
Our very best,
The Calcianos

Anonymous said...

Hi Williams family,
You are surrounding Kevin with love. That is all any of us can hope for in this life. We are thinking of you.
Susan and Ed Murphy

Debbie Lillo said...

Love you guys and praying for comfort. Wishing there was more I could do, but honored to be on your team of supporters. You're fighting this fight in a most inspirational manner for those of us watching. Kevin's one lucky guy to have so many of you in his corner!

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. Your love for each other shines to all of us.
Dianna Higginbotham

Anonymous said...

Our love and prayers are with all of you. Your strength, love, and devotion for each other is an inpiration to all of us. Paul, Kathy, & D.J. Parenti

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